Her sippy cups are taking over my coffee cups – and, the sippy cups are winning. There is no room for my assortment of favorite mugs – large and small – now that those plastic cups, with their handles and lids are camped out on the shelf. I reach in for a mug, bleary eyed and eager for that first gulp of coffee, her sippy cups wobble and avalanche onto the floor. Honestly, it is driving me crazy. And, it’s not just the storage of the darn things, it is also cleaning them. I am a slave to the sippy cup. With several cups often in circulation and scattered throughout the house, cleaning them has become a nighttime ritual. Plastic parts abound, disassemble, scrub, reassemble, and repeat – night after night. I am really looking forward to big girl cups!
Another milestone that I long for is potty training. Diaper changing is offically an ordeal, usually fraught with tears (sometimes mine!) and a lot of screaming (yes, sometimes mine too – although out of respect for the little one I keep the screams silent). With her naked bottom she flips on the changing table, a lot like a fish just pulled out of water, thrashing, bashing, kicking, and yelling. This is when exhaustion usually hits me and I want to throw hands in the air and say, “fine, go with out a diaper, see if I care.” Then, I get a visual of poop on the walls, pee on the carpet, and decide this is a battle I must fight…and win.
I remember being on the other side of the fence, yelling at my mom, making her mornings horribly painful, telling her things just to get a rise out of her, challenging her efforts that really were in my best interest. If attitude and angst is genetic, I am in so much trouble! At the same time, I want her to be independent, to be a girl, and eventually a woman, who has opinions and knows what she wants. Ah, this is the dichotomy of motherhood -- we want them to have a strong voice, but we want still the final word.
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